3 Tips for Taking Notes in Custody Matters

29 Aug 2023 Samantha Munoz

Divorce is one of the saddest things that can happen to a couple. Something that can be very difficult when you get divorced is when the matter of child custody comes up. Custody matters can become very messy. One of the things that can help you when it comes to custody matters is keeping notes. Below are some of the things that you should do, starting when you first begin the divorce proceedings.

1. Be Consistent – You want to take notes whenever you are interacting with the child’s other parent. Make sure that you are writing down the details if they’ve done something that you think is detrimental or inappropriate to the welfare of your child.
2. Be Cooperative – It’s also important that you are taking notes about positive events, like the constructive and fun activities that were done with the child during your visitation time. You also should note the way you were cooperative with your ex.
3. Be Comprehensive – It’s a good idea to take pictures so that you can corroborate what you wrote down. You also want to note anyone who was a witness to what was said or done, so that you can take them with you to the court case.

Taking notes when it comes to custody matters is very important. Although you can use a notebook, there are also apps that you can use on your phone. Use whatever is easiest for you and that will help you with your case.